Affirmations for ACOA's
To be recorded in your own voice and played back softly
You can be sure about what you need.
You can think for yourself.
You don't have to take care of people by thinking for them.
You can let people know when you feel angry.
I'm glad you are growing up.
You can think and feel at the same time.
You are not responsible for other's behavior.
When you express your opions stright, you are listened to, heard, respected and accepted.
You don't have to suffer to get what you need.
You don't have to be dependent on others for your self esteem.
You have the right to ask for what you want and need.
You can trust yourself now.
You have a right to say yes or no without guilt.
You are good enough to be loved.
You can have fun whenever you chose.
You can have confidence in your ability.
You can let yourself win.
You can forgive yourself and others for past hurts and mistakes.
You have aright to surround yourself with people who nurish you.
You can take credit for what you have done.
You can let others in instead of being lonely.
You have lots of choices. Exercise them.
You don't have to struggle to survive anymore.
You have a right to say as you see it.
You deserve to be happy. Be happy.
You have a right to have open and loving relationships.
You do not have to control or manipulate others to get what you want and need.
You can let go of the losses you have suffered in the past and instead, you can talk about the past without guilt and feel free.
It is okay to let people in, to trust them.
You have a right to express your feelings whether they are negative or positive.
You can let down your guard. You are safe.
You are lovable and capable.
You can be mad, sad, angry and frustrated and still be a sucess in life.
You have a right to be you. You are not bound by your past.
You have a right to give and receive affection.
I'm so glad you are here.
You have a right to be your own person.
I love you.
Feel free to add or subtract from this list as you often as you like.
Source Anonymous
Last Revised -- Sunday, May 25, 1997 11:51:44 PM
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